In adolescence, love emerges, manifesting itself in many ways.
We realize that he arrived at the girl's heart, with longings of a woman, when she spends more time with her personal care.
The hair is never good. Today she wants it smooth, later, curly, changing the color, changing the cut.
She looks in the mirror from the front side, the back. And she is never okay.
Lipstick, perfume, makeup. Clothes fairer, clothes wider, shorter. A session of endless tastes, according to fashion.
And, more than once, already at the gate of the house, she turns, for another look at the mirror.
She passes by the father and asks:
Am I pretty, Dad?
After all, one man's opinion is important.
When the boy, who feels in himself the ardor of masculinity, discovers it, everyone in the family realize.
Because the bath is lengthy and frequent. Clothing is chosen with details.
The hair - ah, the hair - the item is over worked. Shaving the face well or to grow a beard? What indecision!
The big question is: How do girls like most?
The reason for all this is called love. Something different that makes the heart beat in the brain, legs trembling, stuttering, sweating hands.
It's a different feeling for the opposite sex.
Just a moment ago they fought each other, considering they are real enemies.
The boys were boring. The girls, silly.
Now, that look, a glance from one to the other is able to make them soar to the clouds.
It is beautiful this time of the discovery of this sweet feeling. It is not the same love that one has for parents, for brothers, grandparents, and friends.
It's a sentiment that fosters the desire to be next to each other; which has the ability to daydream; to believe that everything will be held in the near future; that happiness is full, rosy, permanent.
Love, lovers. Gestures of affection, looks lost in the space, in fact, if all satisfied with the image of the object of love.
Chocolate boxes, flowers, little treats.
You, who have already crossed the line of adolescence; that is dating the same person for years; who is married, is already a dad, grandfather – do you remember how exciting were those daydreams, hopes, castles in the air?
You may say this age is over, that teens are teens.
Believe: the season for love never ends. No matter the season.
When you love, there are always flowers and perfumes in the heart.
So this Valentine's Day, surprise your love even if you are already unaccustomed to gestures credited to extremely passionate.
Show that you are still the leading man of her dreams. Invite her to walk, to dance, to dinner.
Both, go out alone. Go back to dreaming, watching the moon and the stars, which should be shining just for you two.
Rediscover the love that once united you.
Offer flowers, speak words of kindness, and remember how she is still beautiful.
The maturity of years did so well to you!
Get ready as a kid coming out for the first time with his girlfriend.
And find that love never grows old. Because love is the most sublime feeling that God allows us to achieve.
Think about it! Today, on this special day!
Spiritist Moment Team.
July 4.2013.